Being a parent at any stage is difficult. I'm beginning to recognized that for my parents, being the parent of adult children is sometimes more difficult than when I was still a little guy living at home. his post is for any parent who has adult children. Here are 7 ways to parent your adult children.

 What I am about to write is not new and not original. However, this one simple principle will change your whole life for the better! This simple principle will change your life. The joys from this change of perception is unimaginable. The fight is also never done.

It takes a miracle to re-ignite a fire once you’ve hosed it down. Skillful leaders use words to energize and release. Foolish leaders rein in and control. Everyone has a fire inside. Leadership’s role is throwing gas on it.

Creating a team that will move forward and bring your vision to fruition is no easy task. I am perplexed by how careless people can be when hiring someone. I refuse to hire poorly. Here are 11 ways to ensure you Hire the Right Person.

Some of the best leadership advice I have ever received was on what I was doing when I was not leading. What was my pace of life? Was I resting well? Did I have moments of fun with family and friends? These items release pressure and breathe life into a leader. What activities do you take part in can bring you life and can make all the difference in your effectiveness. 

Maybe you are like me and sometimes feel like leadership can become a means to an end. You empower, motivate, encourage, delegate and do whatever 7-step process to increase your influence as a leader. I am all for growth as a leader. But when was the last time, you blessed someone for no reason.

Even if you're not self-employed, your boss is you. You manage your career, your day, your responses. You manage how you sell your services and your education and the way you talk to yourself.

Odds are, you're doing it poorly.

Giving the right answers, with the right resume, having the right personality, and wearing the right outfit won't always get you a job. But having the right question at the end of the interview, may keep you at the top of the list and set you apart from the rest of the candidates. This one question, or maybe two, is the icing on the cake. 

At the end of the interview, you may be asked, “Do you have any questions for me?”

I’ve made many bad decisions in my leadership. Thankfully, the longer I lead, the more I develop warning signs I’m about to make another. I think these may apply to all leaders.

These aren’t full proof. They don’t mean you are definitely making a bad decision. But, they are hints you might and worth considering before you make the decision — especially major decisions.

Here are 7 hints you’re about to make the wrong decision as a leader:

Decision making is an essential leadership skill. If you can learn how to make timely, well-considered decisions, then you can lead your team to well-deserved  success. If, however, you make poor decisions, your time as a leader will be brutally short.

Leaders make tons of mistakes. I will be the first to admit that I have not always made the right call. Experiences mess-ups has taught me many lessons as I continue to lead as a teacher, coach, husband, writer, father, brother, friend and any other hat that I try to wear. Looking back and seeing the lessons of life are worth sharing. 

There is a lot on how to obtain and write goals. This post will attempt to take the best out there and consolidate it to an easy to read post. The goal (pun intended) of this post is for you to go and write meaningful goals that will help you in your pursuit of leadership, purpose, and overall sanity as you navigate through life.