5 Real Reasons Most Dreams Never Come True
Most leaders spend very little time on dreaming. In fact, I have often heard of leaders who purposely avoid dreaming because it will never become a reality. Why not dream? I often schedule out time in my week to dream. I find value in spending time looking to the future. My dreams can quickly become vision, then turn into action steps toward fulfilling a dream I once had. No one fulfills their dream by accident.
The Five Components of Effective Delegation
WITH SO MANY THINGS ON OUR TO-DO LISTS AND SO MANY NEW THINGS COMING AT US EVERY DAY, HOW DO WE STAY ABOVE WATER AS LEADERS?
One common answer is delegation.
Your Values Define Your Leadership
Values are things that you believe are important in the way you live, lead, work, rest, play, etc. Your values also serve as the most important component in your sense of purpose, passion, and play. In other words, when the things you do and how you lead match with what you value, you are generally a happy fulfilled person. When the things you value do not match with the things you do, you generally are stressed, unhappy, and unfulfilled. Here are 3 ways to identify your personal values.
What Makes a Leader Truly Inspiring?
Have you ever been inspired? My guess is yes. Leaders desire to be inspiring, but what does it take. You are not going to follow someone if they don't inspire you in a BIG way.
What’s the difference between a leader we respect and one we’d actually follow?
This article will show you how to Inspire. Click for more...
Looking ahead
We have big changes coming to CoachAyers.com.
Big changes coming to CoachAyers.com. I will now be posting 3 times a week. If you are a subscriber you will receive in your email inbox a post on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday mornings for the foreseeable future.
I also have currently 3 spots free to for leadership, life, and executive coaching. Email me at JT@CoachAyers.com or you can Click Here for more information.
I am now teaching a class focused on leadership development in public education (Awesome, right?). Some of my posts will be guided from the weekly lessons based on the curriculum I made for this particular class.
Some of the topics will include, but are not limited to....Click for more.
How Criticism Can Poison You
Criticism stings. It can ruin your day and cripple you with discouragement. This discouragement is often escalated by “Critic’s Math.” With Critics Math, no matter how many positive interactions I have, I tend to forget them and latch on to the negative. Here are 3 ways to cope with this problem.
Too Much Information Robs You of Happiness
More information doesn't always make us happier. At some point, improvement turns into a game, something to be won or lost, completely losing the point of the project we set out to do. In many ways we have allowed technology to rob us of our happiness. We need to know more, see more, experience more all the time. It is never enough. So...
7 ways to unconventionally grow
Leaders want to grow. They want to mature. They want to stay current. However, sometimes you need to find ways to grow that are different then the norm. You can learn in many different ways. I have tried to always be conscious of my need to continue growing as a leader. Here are some ideas from my experiences, that are a little different then you would find in a leadership blog or book.
16 differences between successful people and unsuccessful people
This post is one of my favorites on the subject of leadership. Every time I come to it I find myself convicted with a new issue to resolve. Below are the 16 differences between successful people and unsuccessful people by Andy Bailey. You can click on the infographic above for a quick cheat sheet.
4 Steps to Overcome Being Overwhelmed
If you are a leader, then there are times you will be overwhelmed. It seems to come with the title. What do you do when you are in over your head?
No matter how confident and secure you are in your current position, you will probably experience one, if not all, of these scenarios...
The Paradoxical Commandments
Yes, why not? Why not be yourself? Why not go out on a limb and try something new or different? Why not do something that everyone said is impossible? Why not make a fool of yourself and have a good laugh at yourself?
Busy is NOT a Four Letter Word
Time is valuable and precious. More valuable then money. Money you can grow. My brother's occupation is in the stock market and he recently said, "I need more money to make money." You can grow money. Time you can not. Time has no interest. There are no do-overs with time. You only get one August 6th, 2014. That day will come and then be gone forever.