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9 Things You May Not Know About Introverts

The major problem with introversion — which, by the way, is not a disease — and not a problem — is the misunderstanding of it. People act like it’s a personality flaw. But, it’s nothing like that. Introversion is a preference in how we respond to life. Nothing more. It’s a wiring. But, there’s no flaw in the wiring.

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Why You Want to Matter

Most people on the planet crave or have a thirst for a sense of feeling important, validation, acceptance, approved, or what they do matters. 

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How to Release Anger and Bitterness

You’re going to hurt people and people are going to hurt you. As John Ortberg says living with people is like “dancing with porcupines.” So what will you do when you get hurt?

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When a Good Leader Fails

What happens when a "Good Leader" fails? Does this now make them a bad leader? Before we right them off we should consider this...

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"Be Hardy" by Louie Zamperini

If you are reading this and you're kind of discouraged, you have been kind of broken, you're feeling a little beat up by life, or you just would like a little tangible hope, remember to "Be Hardy."

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Men's RESET Message 2015 by JT Ayers

I recently had the chance to speak to a large group of men at the Village Church of Irvine's Men's RESET. It was a great time. The video of that message is below.

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20 Characteristics of an All In Leader

I want leaders on my team who are “all in.” Coaches want players who are “all in” on their teams. Every organization out there wants employees and team members who are “all in.”

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The Positive side of Unprepared

Is there anything worse we can say about you and your work? 

"You are unprepared."

But the word "unprepared" means two things, not just one.

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Winston Churchill on Leadership

His leadership character was forged in the crucible of suffering and fatigue. Trying times will do that. He brought a nation through the horrors of war and led them with a resilient spirit. His fingerprints are still keenly felt upon the United Kingdom even today.

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